Have you ever wondered why you tackle challenges the way you do, or why certain situations just feel like your sweet spot?
Let’s dive into something eye-opening and fun: your style. Not your fashion style, I’m talking about your personality style – your God-given design that shapes how you lead, love, and live.
If you’ve ever wondered why you manage to organize a meal train like a Fortune 500 CEO or why you’re the one everyone turns to when they need a hug, you’re about to find out. The DISC behavioral assessment helps us understand these natural tendencies so we can thrive in every season—whether you’re deep in carpool duty or navigating the quietness of an empty nest. Let’s dive in!
When I first started teaching back in the 1990s, I was a twenty-three-year-old surrounded by seasoned educators. Inside, I felt like a fish out of water, and my strong D style kept me from asking questions. I put on a show that I knew what I was doing, even when I clearly did not. Teacher meetings, group decisions, and collaboration were all new to me. I often charged straight ahead, making decisions without seeking input from others.
It took me several years to learn the wisdom of involving a variety of voices. Now I know that slowing down to seek advice leads to better decisions and stronger relationships. For example, when my Aunt Sandra put me in charge of her estate, I needed to make quick decisions to sell her rental properties and take care of 10 beneficiaries. It was my decisiveness that got the job done in record time, but it was also the team of advisors I leaned on that ensured everything went smoothly. That’s how I’ve learned to balance my “get-it-done” energy with pausing to involve others.
Turn that powerhouse energy toward your goals. Whether it’s starting a new project or planning a weekend getaway, lean into your strength of decisiveness. Just remember—pause occasionally to check in with your “team.” They want to be part of the mission too!
Our daughter Megan is a quintessential high-I personality. Her high school years were spent in New York and Boca Raton, Florida, pursuing her passion for a career as a professional ballerina. She made friends from every corner of the world—some who spoke zero English or had value systems very different from her own. It didn’t matter; she was strong in who she was and embraced everyone she met.
But I’ve also seen how my high-I clients sometimes struggle to set boundaries. They want to make everyone happy, which can leave them drained. Learning to say “no” when needed and carving out intentional time for themselves is key. High-I individuals have a unique ability to turn tricky situations into wins with their quick wit, charm, and warmth, putting everyone at ease.
Use your gift of connection to build new relationships in this season. Whether it’s volunteering, joining a book club, or even starting a podcast (yes, I said it), your energy can inspire others to step out of their comfort zones too.
My husband is the definition of a Steady Eddy. He would keep at certain tasks long after I would give up in frustration. Before we had kids, I was working on making my first quilt, and I raced through it. When I was done, he pointed out that some of it was out of alignment. I was irritated at first, but he gently reminded me how important that quilt was and encouraged me to take the time to do it right. I reconstructed it, and he was right—I was so proud of my first work of art. He always helps me to slow down and do things right, and now that mindset comes naturally to me.
Your calming presence is needed—in your community, your family, and your friendships. Use this season to build deeper connections and establish routines that bring you peace. And don’t forget to prioritize your own needs. Self-care is not selfish.
I’ve worked with several clients who are high-Cs, and their attention to detail is unmatched. Whether they’re running events or planning meetings, everything they do is flawless. But I’ve also seen how their perfectionism can hold them back. They’ll overanalyze a decision until they’re stuck, unable to move forward because it doesn’t feel “perfect.”
One of the breakthroughs I’ve seen is when they realize that nobody else knows exactly how things were “supposed” to turn out. Everyone else is thrilled with the results, even if it wasn’t 100% perfect. Learning to embrace progress over perfection helps them move forward with more confidence.
Use your planning superpower to create a vision for this next chapter. Whether it’s organizing a dream trip or launching a side hustle, your attention to detail will ensure success. Just remember—not everything has to be perfect to be meaningful.
Friend, discovering your divine design isn’t just about taking a personality test—it’s about unlocking the clarity and confidence to step boldly into your path of purpose. When you know your style, you move forward with a clear vision, aligned with who God created you to be.
So, what’s your style? It’s time to lean into your strengths, grow in your opportunities, and step boldly into the life God has for you. If you’re ready to gain clarity and discover how your DISC style can help you thrive, let’s connect. Schedule a free clarity call with me today—together, we’ll uncover your strengths and craft a vision for your next chapter. This isn’t just the next chapter—it’s your best chapter yet.
